Almost everyone shilly-shallies. There are always things you might not want to do, even though you know it may be necessary. The good news is you can avoid living like that. You can change the way you look at your tasks and make procrastination a distant memory.
There are all kinds of reasons why people delay. Some do it because they don't like the task, others do it because other things mean more to them, and still other people might be struggling with depression, sickness, or just feeling down.
No matter what your reasons for holding off, you can take control and get things done.
No matter what your reasons for holding off, you can take control and get things done.
By some estimates, 20 percent of people consider themselves to be chronic procrastinators and many more put things off on occasion. If procrastination is getting in between you and your life goals, try these suggestions for getting things done with less delay.
Understanding Why You Procrastinate.
- Spot perfectionism. Procrastination and perfectionism often go hand in hand. You may be setting your standards so high that they intimidate you from doing your best. Determine if you're avoiding important tasks because you're anxious about how well you'll perform.
- Make up your mind. You might play for time because you find it challenging to make decisions. You keep developing more options and telling yourself that you're doing background research rather than buckling down to more concrete work.
- Analyze your feelings about the last minute rush. Maybe you've become conditioned to the euphoria you feel when working under pressure. You may need to find more productive ways to motivate and reward yourself.
Changing Your Thinking.
- Examine the consequences of immediate gratification.Impulse control often lies at the heart of chronic procrastination. Try asking yourself which activities will contribute more to your wellbeing over the long term. You may enjoy watching several episodes of your favorite TV show back to back when it's more profitable to spend that time studying.
- Drop the dread. Worrying about a project can often be more unpleasant than just doing it. Try adopting a neutral state of mind when you start listing all the reasons why you put off a project, like doing your taxes. You may be pleasantly surprised at how effectively you can reduce the stress you place on yourself.
- Hold yourself accountable. Take charge of your life by acknowledging your own abilities and making a commitment to give your best efforts to the things you care about. For example, get started today on your resolution to exercise daily rather than waiting until some hypothetical time when you'll feel more energetic.
Developing New Habits.
- Schedule your time realistically. Take an inventory of how you currently use your time. Calculate how long it really takes you to complete your typical errands compared to the overly optimistic scenarios that keep putting you behind schedule.
- Minimize distractions. If checking emails and surfing the web are eating up your time, put those distractions out of reach temporarily. See how much more you can accomplish when you focus only on the task at hand.
- Manage interruptions. Some interruptions are inevitable. Remain flexible so you can get back to work quickly rather than letting a five minute phone call turn into a wasted afternoon.
- Break tasks down into manageable chunks. Set intermediate deadlines for yourself. If your final proposal is due in a month, allot time for each section, editing, and proofreading.
- Practice with small endeavours. You can turn almost anything into an opportunity to reinforce your new habits. Wipe down the kitchen counters immediately instead of saving up all of your cleaning for the weekend.
- Reward your progress. You might procrastinate because it allows you to spend time on things you enjoy more than the things you're trying to avoid. When you do your grocery shopping before work rather than sleeping for another hour, pay yourself back by serving up your favourite dish for dinner.
- Expect setbacks. You're likely to experience some backsliding. Look for the temptations that pull you off course and develop strategies to overcome them. If you feel lethargic after dinner, schedule your toughest work early in the morning when you're more alert.
Getting your tasks completed on time is a sign that you have control over yourself and your life. You'll enjoy the feeling of having more control over your life! You'll be free from that familiar chaos that ensues each time a deadline looms or you finish a task late.
Following these tips can help you put procrastination in its place - in your past:
- It's largely about the pain. Now or later? Do you want to suffer now or suffer later? Those who get things done on time would rather just get it over with. Those who procrastinate would rather wait.
- As a procrastinator, you usually get active when the pain of doing it is less than the pain of not doing it. The ironic thing is that by waiting, the pain is far greater than if the task would've been managed earlier.
- Getting it done now just makes so much more sense. You'll suffer less in the long run and you won't have the mental challenge of the task hanging over your head for days or weeks.
- Change your mindset. Instead of thinking about how much you don't want to do it, try focusing on how good you'll feel when you're done!
- Try to associate as much positive feeling as you can about getting it done and out of the way. When you can think about the task and feel positive about it, it's as good as finished.
- By the same token, try to associate pain to getting it done late or at the last minute. Imagine how it will feel if you're late. What would the consequences be?
- Just get started. It can be very difficult to even get started on a large task. Do whatever you need to do to make yourself just start on the task. Once you get going, you can establish some momentum and then it's not usually so bad.
- Try setting up a schedule where you do 10% each day or reward yourself for getting a certain amount accomplished.
- Frequently you'll find that if you can just get started, it's not nearly as challenging as you anticipated. The first step always seems to be the toughest.
- Get some help. Sometimes involving other people can be motivational. Maybe a friend can assist you in getting your task done. Feeling like you're not all alone in the situation can ease the challenge of completing the task in question.
- Make a list of the ways you waste time. Being aware of the things you tend do instead of the things you should be doing will make it easier to catch yourself when you stray.
- Some common ways of wasting time would include television, surfing the internet, email, shopping trips with no real purpose, and more. If you know your tendencies, you'll be able to spot them more easily.
- Track your progress at the end of each day. You wouldn't try to lose weight without getting on the scale once in a while. Every day, measure your progress so you can really see where you are.
Procrastination doesn't have to be a constant part of your life.Focus on how good you'll feel to have it done and out of the way. The tips above are a good starting point. If you can stop relying on stress-induced adrenaline as motivation to take action, you'll feel a much greater sense of control over your life.
Get started with these tips right away!
Get started with these tips right away!
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